Common Cat Owner Mistakes (and How to Fix Them)

By Tom’s Cat Website • Updated September 2, 2025 • ~10 min read

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1) Overfeeding & Free-Feeding

Leaving a full bowl out 24/7 leads to weight gain. Measure meals twice daily and reassess portions every few weeks based on body condition.

Timed feeders

2) Skipping Enrichment & Play

Bored cats act out. Schedule 10–15 minute wand sessions and rotate toys weekly. Add vertical spaces and foraging games.

Wand toys   Food puzzles

3) Litter Box Problems

Large, uncovered boxes

4) Neglecting Dental Health

Dental disease is common and painful. Use cat-safe toothpaste and ask your vet about professional cleanings.

Dental kits

5) Unsafe Plants & Essential Oils

Many common houseplants (lilies, pothos) and undiluted essential oils are toxic. Verify safety before bringing them home.

Cat-safe plant ideas

6) Punishing Unwanted Behavior

Spray bottles and yelling increase stress. Instead, identify the need (clawing, energy, attention) and provide an appropriate outlet (scratching post, play, training).

Sturdy scratching posts

7) No ID or Microchip

Even indoor cats can slip outside. Microchip, use a breakaway collar, and keep contact info current.

Breakaway collars with ID

8) Skipping Grooming

Brush long-hair cats a few times weekly to reduce mats and hairballs. Trim nails regularly and offer scratching options.

Grooming brushes

9) Ignoring Subtle Health Changes

Changes in litter habits, thirst, or appetite can signal illness. When in doubt, call your vet.

10) Low-Quality, Easily Broken Toys

Cheap toys can shed parts or tangle. Inspect often, supervise strings, and replace worn items.

Durable toy picks